Anal Sex Guide

Anal sex is becoming more common. In pop culture, he moved from the world of pornography to the mainstream media. If you're thinking about anal sex for the first time, you're not alone and that's okay.

Anal sex can include not only the penetration of the penis, but also fingers, tongue, and toy accessories. Anal sex can be enjoyed by members of any gender and sexual orientation.

Why is it nice?

For many people, the anus is an erogenous zone in its own right, as it contains many nerve endings. Both men and women can experience orgasm through anal stimulation: in women, the back wall of the vagina and the clitoris are stimulated; in men, the prostate is stimulated.

Preparation for anal sex

The mucous membrane of the rectum is thinner than in the vagina. This means that it can tear easily. It is important that the partner cuts and sharpens the nails to avoid uneven edges. If you're using sex accessories, it's important to avoid protrusions and oversized objects. If the accessory has a stand, do not place it inside the anus, as this may cause the hole to rupture.

There is a theory that the anus is ready for a penis to enter it after it can be entered Three fingers your partner. In order for this to be possible, You can train the anus like any other muscle, using dilators or. Ideally, you should start with a small dilator, leaving it inside the anus for 10 minutes a couple of times a day for a week. If that's not enough, you can move on to a larger dilator and repeat the process until the anus relaxes enough for the penis to enter.

Remember, it shouldn't hurt, which means you don't need to endure pain. Anal sex is just another form of intimacy, and intimacy should be comfortable and enjoyable. As with any sexual activity, you and your partner are responsible for each other’s pleasure. Talk to each other, and at the first sign of pain or discomfort, simply say “no.”

Hygiene

It is recommended to have a bowel movement half an hour to an hour before sexual intercourse. For some people, the only way to engage in anal sex is to use an enema, anal shower or douching. However, none of these methods guarantee 100 percent cleanliness of the anus – These are the last few centimeters of the rectum, which expels waste products from the body. And that's okay. 

Most doctors do not advise douching or enema, as they can lead to thinning of the tissues inside the anus. Thinning tissue can increase the chance of getting infections. If you are going to do an enema or anal shower, use warm water only 4-5 centimeters inside the anus. Do not use chemicals.

Take a shower before sex. Fingers and a little water will help you relax. 

Of course, we cannot always foresee how events will unfold. If you find yourself not ready for sex, be sure to talk to your partner. A quick trip to the bathroom can save you both headaches.

Lubricant

The anus does not produce its own lubrication. Without lubrication, delicate tissues can tear, which can be painful and increase the risk of infection. Use lubricant. A lot! Apply it to the anus, penis and toys. 

Protection

Anal sex practiced without precautions can lead to injuries to the rectal mucosa, which increases the risk of contracting STIs. As with vaginal or oral sex, use condoms or barrier protection to avoid bacterial or sexually transmitted infections. You can use barrier protection, such as Cofferdam.

A cofferdam is a square piece of thin latex that creates a barrier between the mouth and the genitals. It is used during cunnilingus and anilingus. Apply a water-based lubricant to the part of the body you plan to stimulate, and then place the dental dam over it. You can buy one online, for example, or make your own from a condom. Cut the condom lengthwise so that you end up with a rectangular piece of latex.

Make sure that you do not have contraindications in which you should not practice anal sex.

• diarrhea 
• hemorrhoids;
• anal fissure;
• proctitis;
• anal fistula;
• thrombosis of the hemorrhoid;

Communication

Anal sex is another way to express and receive love. Practice it when you trust your partner and can relax around them. Share your concerns with your partner, prepare together, and take your time.