The Exploitation of LGBT Themes by Straight People (or How “Poor Straight Boys” Milk Gay Men and Laugh in Your Face)

Comment Doberman Media Author The magazine’s editor expressed his opinion about a cynical industry where young men deliberately prey on the desires and vulnerabilities of a gay audience. They post explicit content, collect donations, sell their belongings, and pretend to be “embarrassed by the attention from gay men,” yet they keep doing it because the scheme brings in a lot of money. It’s a well-established money-making model. These guys exploit the gay audience, look down on it, but are more than happy to take its money. And gay men themselves fuel this toxic dynamic by continuing to pay.

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Open any TikTok, Telegram, or OnlyFans app—and right there in your feed: yet another guy in his underwear, maybe with oil on his abs, staring sadly into the camera and complaining in a trembling voice:

"Guys, I told you I'm straight… Why are you sending me pictures of penises in my DMs? It really makes me uncomfortable…"

The post has 20,000–30,000 likes, donations of several thousand rubles, and comments like “poor thing” and “geeks are so obsessed.”

And a week later, this same “poor guy” posts a new MacBook and some Stories: "Thanks to my friend for the support—my followers are the best."

And you still believe he's getting harassed in his DMs?

This isn't suffering. It's a damn well-oiled money-making scheme.

Watch how the conveyor works:

1. We're looking for a straight guy between the ages of 18 and 25 with a face and body that make gay guys drool.
2. We're bombarding him with photos of him in the shower, in his underwear, with wet hair, and with his hand dangerously close to his fly.
3. A couple of weeks later—a tearful Instagram Story: “I’m straight, stop hitting on me—it’s gross.”
4. A wave of pity, 10 donations, a paid channel “only for normal guys” (which, of course, is exactly the kind of place the people he just called perverts are flocking to).

And now he’s already driving a new car, but you’re still throwing money at him for “protein shakes” because “what if he actually does it—even just once…”.

These aren't just a few isolated freaks—it's an entire industry

Guys are selling used underwear for 15,000–20,000, socks for 5, and photos of their feet for 3. And in every post, they say, “I’m not gay—it’s just business.”

That is, literally: "Pay me, faggots, but don't you dare think I'm one of you."

It's beautiful, isn't it? A straight guy who lives off gay men's money while spitting in their faces.

And the worst part is—they even portray themselves as victims.

Damn, you're the one posting these photos in that '90s gay porn style, you're the one signing off with "open to collabs," and you're the one creating the "18+ guys only" group.

And then you're surprised when people message you? Man, you're just a brilliant actor—stick your Oscar up your ass.

Real-life examples? Here you go—here are some recent examples:

The Alpha House Boys — A group of TikTokers who spent years filming “bromance” videos, kissing on camera, promising gay content in their live streams, and then laughing in their private chats: “Those suckers fell for it.” After they were exposed, half the accounts were deleted, but the cash was already in the bank.

Andy Lee — A British guy who describes himself as “straight but curious” made hundreds of thousands of dollars by messing with gay men’s heads: “Maybe I’ll try it with a guy… but only if you donate.” Later, in an interview, he calmly said, “I’m straight—it’s just business.”

Half of Russian "natural" fitness guys are in the same boat: a butt pic on Stories → "got bombarded with dicks again" → donations → another butt pic. The cycle goes on forever.

And as long as you, my dears, keep throwing money at them in the hope that this handsome guy is “almost gay” or “just needs a little more to snap,” they’ll keep laughing at you in their voice chats with their buddies.

So let's be honest:

This isn’t about “poor straight boys being harassed by evil gay men.” It’s a brazen, cynical, and sickeningly profitable scam. It’s sex work without sex, where the client’s heterosexuality itself has become the main fetish.

Do you want to put an end to this circus?

Stop paying for contempt.

Stop liking posts about "straight guys' suffering."

Stop believing that he'll suddenly fall in love with you for 10,000 rubles.

Or better yet, give that money to actual gay creators who won't spit in your face after you pay them.

Or keep chipping in for yet another new iPhone "I'm not gay, but...".

The choice is yours.

But then don't go whining later that "all straight people are such scum."

They're like that because you raised them that way with money.