Opinion
You're nobody. And that's probably the best thing that has ever happened to you
By a certain time, we are all overgrown with "social fat". You've got a name, a reputation, a social circle where...
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Stas Wilder
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Stanislav is an expat living in Germany. He writes about life, sex and the fear of old age, which sooner or later will catch up with all of us. Learns what's going on in the head of assets when is turned off and feelings are turned on |
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Stas Wilder
Opinion
Opinion
Why I Choose Brutal Honesty, or How I Stopped Being a “Good Gay Guy”
Why I Stopped Filtering Words and Why It's Time For You Too. In the comments, one thing began to fly to me...
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Technology
Digital Detox and Libido: What's Wrong with AI in Social Media, HR, and Sex
Let's be clear right away: I'm not a Luddite (a person who is afraid of new technologies or actively opposes progress...
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Opinion
A difficult past is a special currency!
Gays have a special currency – a difficult past. If you haven't had at least one...
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Culture
"The only part of a person that belongs to us is what we have changed in them."
For one of my tasks, I needed to study the story of Marlene Dietrich. I watched some black and white films...
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Opinion
Opinion: A Fallback Option with No Future. What It's Like to Date a Married Bisexual Man
In one of my articles, I recognize the future of bisexuals, but I want to talk about others,...
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Relationships
Not beaten, not painted is a myth for the naïve. Why "mileage" in a relationship is an advantage, not a defect
In the era of perfect profiles on Tinder, Grindr and Instagram, where everyone strives to look like a brand new car...
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Opinion
From OnlyFans to Experts: How Former Porn Actors Began Treating Gay Trauma (and Why It's Dangerous)
I noticed one important feature among LGBT bloggers, who yesterday were ordinary, but a friend sharply...
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Opinion
Demisexuality or depression? Why the gay community has forgotten how to have sex without drama
Do you know what's new I noticed? A couple of years ago, everyone was for quick meetings, express sex, and...
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Opinion
Emigration for LGBT people from Russia and Belarus: myths, reality and current difficulties at the end of 2025
Sometimes, scrolling through gay blogs and stories of relocators, it seems that every gay man in Russia, Belarus (and Kazakhstan)...
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Persons
"You can't run away from yourself." Anthony Perkins is a gay man who was convinced that he was heterosexual
In the era of golden Hollywood, where the facades of ideal masculinity were guarded more strictly than state secrets, Anthony Perkins became...
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Germany
From a symbol of German precision to a national problem: What happened to Deutsche Bahn?
Living in Germany, I very often talk about the LGBT community, completely forgetting about ordinary life, and...
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