Мнение. Мускулы важнее достоинства: почему гей-сообщество прощает создателям “взрослого” контента цинизм?

Context. Популярный создатель контента для OnlyFans Джей ک Андрич (известный как @jakipz) был заблокирован в TikTok после скандала из-за его высказываний об ЛГБТК+ сообществе. Во время прямой трансляции зритель спросил Андрича, поддерживает ли он ЛГБТК+ людей. Он ответил: «Не особо» (Not in particular), после чего усомнился в том, что ЛГБТ-персоналии составляют большую часть его аудитории. Видео быстро разошлось по сети. Другой взрослый креатор, Тимоти Шампань, раскритиковал его, отметив, что значительную часть подписчиков и клиентов Андрича составляют именно геи, и такое пренебрежительное отношение при работе в данной сфере выглядит безумием.

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What consumer activism looks like.

We have before us two videos in one (Watch).

Here is the Russian translation of the video:
[Видео на заднем плане]:
— Do you support LGBTQ people?
— Ummmmmm… Not really. Kind of yes and no, but I don't support you just because you're part of “that” community. I don't care. I genuinely couldn't care less.
[Реакция и монолог главного героя]:
— I just tuned out as soon as I heard “not really.” I think that's half your fan base. No, no, no, I think you're mistaken.

Are we really surprised? Are we actually shocked that he said that? That he doesn't support our community? I mean, we're talking about a guy who's been reaping the benefits of our community for years without ever having to fight or face the hardships gay people face.

He doesn't know what it's like to come out. He doesn't know what it's like to lack social acceptance. He doesn't know what it's like to have no support at home or at school. He's the kind of man who gets everything handed to him. He's white, straight, and attractive.

Are we really surprised? If so, you're just fools. You're supporting a queerbaiter (gay-baiter). Someone who sells you a fantasy, someone who sells you lies. And you're shocked when he tells you he doesn't give a damn about you because you're gay? Let's be realistic.

But I have a few words for this content creator. Stop lying. The LGBTQ+ community — isn't 50% of your audience. It's more like 80% or even higher. And I know this because, as a fellow content creator, I know that it's men who pay, not women. That's why straight content creators like you have to go online and spread their cheeks so our community can watch and enjoy. Because otherwise you'd starve, baby. You'd starve.

Let me put that in more human terms:

“We spent years watching you spread your cheeks and paying you for it, and now it turns out our subscription didn't come with your loyalty. Give us our money back.”

But hold on. If you paid for ass, then ass is what you got. The product, as they say, was delivered in full.

The guy actually said something pretty simple: he doesn't care whether you're gay or not. You can consider that position simplistic, inadequate, or cowardly—fine. But how on earth does buying erotic content give you the right to demand that the seller also promote the correct LGBT agenda?

Next: “He doesn't know what it's like to be gay.”

Well… yes.

Because he's not gay.

“He's white, straight, and attractive—everything was handed to him on a silver platter.”

Of course.

Except money.

He still had to spread his cheeks to get that.

And hardly anyone will unsubscribe from him over this passage. Because they didn't subscribe to him for his deep understanding of LGBTQ+ issues, lectures on discrimination, or support for teenagers after they come out. They subscribed because he has a cute face, a mountain of muscle, straight teeth, and SHOWS HIS ASS.

We actually have a perfect example right before our eyes of just how well this arrangement works—Samuel Dohmen, aka our beloved “Filly-Filly.”

A heterosexual man who is perfectly aware that men are among those watching him. Modeling shoots, nudity, SIXX PAXX—the sexual fantasy is marketed entirely deliberately.

So what?

Do I now have to wait for Filly to make a statement on LGBTQ+ issues before watching him take his shirt off?

I'll somehow manage without it.

He sells handsome Filly. I look at handsome Filly. In this highly complex economic system, everyone has gotten what they came for so far.

And if it turns out tomorrow that Filly doesn't care about my rights at all, I may not like it. I may decide to stop watching him. But that doesn't give me the right to send him a bill saying, “We gays have been jerking off to you for years, so now you owe us.”

Because that sounds rather different, doesn't it?

So tomorrow, the guy from the first video will show his ass again—and a significant portion of today's resistance will happily hit Like.

Because everything worked perfectly until the ass started talking.

And when it began, it suddenly turned out that it came with a list of political demands that the ass itself somehow knew nothing about.

Now this part is just priceless.

This is no longer a fight for acceptance. It’s something very familiar:

“I pay you, so now you have to love me.”

No.

He is obligated to provide the content you paid for.

A civic stance is not included in the subscription.

Andrich’s excuses: The blogger recorded a response video and wrote on the social network X that his words had been “taken out of context and edited together.” He strongly rejected accusations of homophobia, saying that he supports people for their personal qualities rather than automatically (“by default”) simply because they belong to a particular group, religion, or sexual orientation.