In the gay community, cases of spikes have become more frequent. How to protect yourself in a bar, club or on a date? Instructions

Stories regularly appear on social networks and the media about how people are mixed with something in bars, clubs or on dates. In a queer environment, this can happen not only in a crowded bar, but also in a more intimate setting — for example, on a "list" or during a meeting with someone from a dating app (Grindr, Tinder, and others).

What is Spike? Spike (from English. spiking) is the secret mixing of alcohol, drugs or other substances into a person's drink or food without his consent.

Let's figure out how to notice danger in time and what to do if you feel bad.

1. Why would anyone put something in my drink?

This is usually done for the purpose of robbery, sexualized violence, or other crimes. This practice is called "spiking". Because of the drugs, a person becomes helpless, disoriented and cannot fight back. In addition, such substances often cause amnesia: in the morning, a person may have trouble remembering who was nearby and what exactly happened.

2. What substances are commonly used?

Most often, these are drugs with a sedative effect that cause impaired consciousness. These can be:

• Pharmacy products: benzodiazepines, sleeping pills.
• Substances popular in club culture: ketamine, MDMA, and gamma-hydroxybutyrate (GHB) and gamma-butyrolactone (GBL).
• Alcohol: Sometimes strong alcohol is simply imperceptibly poured into the drink so that you get drunk faster.

3. How do I know if something has been added to the glass?

Drugs often have no taste, smell and do not change the appearance of the drink. However, you should be wary if:

• The drink has become more salty or bitter (this is typical for some surfactants).
• The color or clarity of the liquid has changed.
• The ice that was at the top sank to the bottom, or there were suspiciously many gases in the drink.

4. I go to a gay club or bar. How to behave?

The main rule is never lose control of your glass.

• Order drinks yourself and watch the bartender prepare them.
• Do not accept treats from strangers if you have not seen the cooking process or if the glass was brought "from that guy at the table".
• Do not drink from shared containers (such as punch bowls).
• If you go to dance or go to the toilet, and the glass is left on the table — Don't finish it.

5. What if it's a Grindr date or house party?

The risk exists even in a private setting. The drug can also be poured by the person with whom you planned sex, and even your ex-partner.

• Watch your plate as carefully as a glass: drugs can be mixed into food.
• If you are going to someone's house, tell a trusted friend the address and time when you plan to return.
• Keep your phone charged and have a power bank with you.

6. What are the signs that I have been "poisoned"?

It is important to listen to your condition. Spike can be indicated by:

• Too fast and strong intoxication (disproportionate to the drink).
• Sudden drowsiness, nausea, or vomiting.
• Problems with coordination and vision.
• Hallucinations or a strange, frightening sense of self.

7. I feel bad. What to do right now?

Seek help immediately.

• Find a friend or call someone you trust. Ask to be picked up - it is dangerous to go home alone in such a state.
• If you are in the club, please contact the staff or security. Important: Demand that you stay in a crowded place. Do not agree to seclude yourself with an employee of the institution in the back room or office - this can also be unsafe.
• If there are no loved ones nearby, call an ambulance. If possible, save the drink for later analysis.

8. I woke up and I don't remember anything. What should I do?

If you suspect that you have been abused, see your doctor as soon as possible.

• This is necessary to fix injuries and prevent sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.
• In case of a possible risk of HIV infection, it is important to start taking PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) in the first 72 hours.
• Check your bank transactions, phone messages, and taxi travel history to reconstruct your route.

9. Is it worth going to the police?

It's a tough question, and The answer to it directly depends on which country you are in.

If you are in Europe, the United States, Argentina, Mexico, or other democratic countries: In this situation, You need to go to the police unequivocally and without exceptions. In these jurisdictions, spikes and sexualized violence are considered felonies, and police and medical services are trained to deal with such cases sensitively, regardless of your orientation. Reporting a crime will help not only to punish the perpetrator, but also to protect other members of the community, as criminals often act in series.

If you are in Russia or Belarus: Engaging with law enforcement for gay and queer people can be fraught with serious risks. Due to repressive legislation and prejudice, you may face discrimination or pressure from employees. In addition, if traces of PAS are found in your blood, this can be used against you, and the lack of clear memories is a reason not to open a case. In these countries, it is worth contacting the police only with the support of trusted lawyers who specialize in protecting the rights of the LGBT community.

10. How do I help another guy in the club?

Solidarity is important in the gay community. If you notice that someone looks too drunk "not according to the dose", he is wobbly or cannot speak, do not pass by. The main goal is safety. Try to find the survivor's friends or make sure they get home with someone they can trust.

11. What else is important to do for health?

Even if you do not plan to go to the police, Be sure to consult a doctor.

• You need to be tested for Sexually transmitted infections, and HIV.
• Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) is effective in preventing HIV transmission if started early 72 hours after possible contact.
• If there is a suspicion of injuries to internal organs or severe poisoning, do not self-medicate.