Magazine Doberman.media discussed polyamory with a blogger and porn actor Stas Trotsky.
The discussion was sparked by the following news story: Brazil has legalized a marriage between three men for the first time. This was a “small revolution” for the local LGBT community, but it drew a harsh reaction from Stas Trotsky, who commented on the news in a private chat with the phrase “Мне кажется, это п**дец”. This statement offended many people and sparked a lengthy debate.
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Stas Trotsky, who describes himself as a conservative advocate of monogamy, explains his position So, “полиамория — это попытка людей "to come up with some new concepts" (по аналогии с заменой слова «проституция» на «эскорт») и прикрывать неразборчивый секс и «б***ство» словом «любовь»”.
Trotsky is convinced that It's impossible to love two or three people equally.. He believes that if three people live together for the sake of “convenience, an easier daily life, sharing utility bills,” and a varied sex life, then this has nothing to do with love or marriage.
Stas believes that people who enter into polyamorous relationships often "unfortunate people" who have childhood traumas and try to “fill the holes in their hearts—and elsewhere—with large numbers of people.”
The podcast also addresses the question of why the LGBT community, while advocating for inclusivity and tolerance, reacts so strongly to opinions that differ from their own. According to the guest, this is because many gay people are traumatized and are “a raw nerve.”
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The gay community is starting to look more and more like a toxic social club. How can you avoid losing yourself among your own kind? We’re talking about how the gay community affects the mental health of gay men. It’s an uncomfortable but necessary topic—because all too often, behind the facade of rainbow unity lies not support at all, but pressure, strict standards, and internalized homophobia. [слушать]
Stas Trotsky emphasizes that his criticism of polyamory is not tied to sexual orientation but applies to all people in general. At the end, he adds: “Если кто-то хочет заниматься сексом втроём или больше — пожалуйста, но не надо называть это любовью, семьёй, браком и отношениями”.
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